The book starts with a compelling story of an A-10 Warthog pilot in the Afghanistan war following the events of 9/11/2001. Simon describes the pilot’s unrelenting compulsion to pout his own life in jeopardy in order to protect the Special Forces operators pinned down on the ground because of empathy. Empathy is the single greatest asset that enabled him to do his job.
The emphasis throughout part one of the book is that employees are people too and that great organizations understand and embrace that in order to earn trust, you must extend trust. Truly human leadership protects an organization from the internal rivalry that can shatter a culture.
The human mind is still hard wired to perceive threats to our safety and opportunities for prosperity. When we struggle to feel a sense of belonging and being valued at work, we inevitably bring that same struggle home with us and it permeates every aspect of our lives. Companies that thrive do not see people as commodities to drive revenue they see money as the commodity to help grow their people.
Research has shown that having a job that we hate can be as detrimental as not having a job at all. When people at work care about how we feel, stress levels decrease, and a healthier more prosperous person emerges and engages.
Simon provides a great example of the transformation that takes place at Marine Corps Boot Camp that I have personally witnessed. Young Marine Recruits arrive at training feeling insecure and only responsible for themselves. When they graduate, they feel a deep commitment and responsibility for their fellow Marines and those Marines feel the same for them. This feeling of belonging and shared values and deep sense of empathy dramatically enhances trust, cooperation and problem solving. As a result, they are better equipped to face danger because they fear no danger from each other and form a circle of safety.
Challenge: Whether you are in a leadership position or not, how safe do you feel where you work.